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5 Ways to Tell if a Woman is Hitting on You

Men typically have no clue when women hit on them; we’re so used to being on the offense that it’s never part of the equation. If men were more cognizant of women wanting them…well, I don’t know what the outcome would be. At any rate, Asylum offers advice with 5 Ways to Tell if a Woman is Hitting on You.

According to a recent study, men are not so great at telling when women are hitting on them and prefer the direct approach such as “Your place or mine?” This is all well and good in fantasyland where every woman in a bar is a super-aggressive nymphomaniac, but in the real world it can’t hurt to develop your Spidey sense for when a girl wants to get tangled in your web.

So we asked women to tell us their moves for letting a guy know they’re interested and used their answers to compile the top five ways to tell if a woman is hitting on you.

5. She’s using flirtatious body language.
Some signs that she’s into you: fondling a wine glass stem, cigarette, finger, or other phallic-shaped object; fiddling with jewelry; playing with her hair; licking her lips; or dangling her shoe off her foot. Get a full list of flirtatious body language here.

4. She’s touching you.
She touches your arm or shoulder, finds an excuse to feel your clothing or put her fingers on your chest, or she keeps brushing up against you? Women deal with enough unwanted sexual attention not to invite any extra, so if she breaches the physical contact barrier, she probably wants to get close to you.

More Ways to Tell if a Woman is Hitting on You at Asylum.