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How to Make Her Want Anal Sex

Oh yeah, I went there. There are plenty of women who don’t have an interest in anal sex. I can tell you why, in my opinion, because for starters it might be painful.

We fear, that you as men, might get worked up and excited about trying out something new like this and then get impatient and it goes downhill from there. It’s all about patience and knowledge. Where can you get this knowledge on making her want anal sex? Thats where Sex Secrets comes into play.

Sex Secrets:

Do you want to have anal sex with your wife or girlfriend, but are uncertain about her reaction? Many women are curious about anal sex, but are scared about comfort and safety issues. Some women who are unwilling to try anal sex with their current partner may have had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant lover in the past. That’s why I don’t recommend asking a woman for anal sex without some careful preparation. Instead of asking her to try anal sex, it’s better to make her want anal sex.

Anal sex can be very pleasurable for women because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and quite possibly orgasmic. My post Anal Sex from a Female Perspective describes what anal sex feels like for a woman.  I am a firm believer that once a woman experiences the sensual pleasure that anal play can bring, she’ll allow you to explore the possibilities a little further, and, given sufficient time and patience, will eventually allow you to take it to the ultimate step of full anal penetration.